Here is the nursery door. Mira holds Pip. Papa holds Mira’s hand.
Kiss, wave, high five: see you after snack
Mira and Papa have a special goodbye at the nursery door: kiss, wave, high five. Say it together, and do the actions as you read.
Time for our goodbye. Kiss. Wave. High five! “See you after snack,” says Papa. Bye-bye, Papa!
Mira feels sad. That’s okay. Bea kneels down close. Mira hugs Pip tight.
Build, build, blocks. Sing, sing, a song. Now it is snack time. Munch, munch, crunch!
Snack is all done. The door opens. It’s Papa! High five. Wave. Kiss! Hello, Mira!
Papa said, “After snack.” And here he is! Bye-bye, Bea. Home we go!
the end
let’s play: our goodbye game
- Do Mira’s goodbye together: kiss, wave, high five!
- Now do it backwards to say hello: high five, wave, kiss.
- Make up your own little goodbye, and use it next time you part.
talk about it
- How do Mira and Papa say goodbye?
- How did Mira feel when Papa left?
- When did Papa come back?
for grown-ups
What this story helps with: Grown-ups leave and they come back. A little goodbye routine (kiss, wave, high five) helps a toddler feel safe until then.
Feeling upset when a grown-up leaves is a normal part of growing up for little ones. A short goodbye routine that is the same each time can help, and so can always saying goodbye rather than slipping away. Try telling your child when you’ll be back in terms of their day, like “after snack”, and then keep that promise. Over time, they learn that you come back. Swap “Papa” for whatever your child calls their grown-up.
sources we checked
- Separation Anxiety | ZERO TO THREE
- How to Ease Your Child’s Separation Anxiety | HealthyChildren.org (American Academy of Pediatrics)
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